I'm going to start out by saying that there are exceptions to every rule, and there are situations that are extreme situations that don't fall into the categories. Also, I'm kind of feeling bitter right now, so these things might be slightly biased to the current situation. As always , these are mine unusual ramblings, and I'm justified because I warned about it in my title.
The first super respect loser is dishonesty. I'm the kind of person who believes people when they tell me things, and when I find out the they lied to me, I'm heartbroken. The worst part is that I'm also a kind of a forgiving person. They keep stabbing me, over and over again. Eventually, though, it comes to a point where enough is enough and I just lose all respect for them. I can't trust them, and I can hardly even look at them.
The second super irritating respect loser is the pressurer. That person who no matter how many times you say no, just won't give up. If I don't want to tell you my feelings, you're not going to weasel them out of me. Fight me. If I have a secret and I don't want to tell you the first time, I'm not going to. Get over it.
Conversely, I also lose respect for pushovers. People who standards shift and sway with who they are with, what they're doing, or what's in style. Have your own opinions, goshdangit! Stand up for what you believe in! Don't let people push you around, and tell you what you can and can't do, and try to control your life. If you have a secret and don't want to tell, tell them to fight you.
The final group of people have no respect for are the "woe is me" type. The people who think that life is so hard, and that everyone should pity them. Yes life is hard, but you shouldn't go crying about it all day. This one I might be kind of a hypocrite on, but everybody's got something to improve on. It's okay to be upset sometimes, and it's okay not to be happy with where you are in life. But just sitting around sulking isn't going to solve anyone's problems. Crying just to get pity is the weakest trick I know.
So now I'm wondering if you can guess what I'm upset about today. I always call people I'm upset at tools, but I think really there just using me. I am the tool. But one day, this tool is going to smash some fingers. That's all I'm saying.
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