Monday, February 18, 2013

Movie endings...

Okay, this one's probably going to be a quickie because I'm tired and I want to go to bed. I've been thinking about this just for the last couple of minutes, and I really want to share with you. So let's talk about romantic comedies. Or a romance in general. The girl has always got boy problems, whether it be a stupid boyfriend or just the lack of love in life. Along comes Mister Gorgeous. They meet, they fall in love, they're perfect for each other. It appears as if there will be a happy ending. BUT WAIT! The girl's got some previous issue she hasn't settled yet. She decides that this is all too much for her, and that she's going back to her other way of life. Now here's where it gets interesting. Enter the best friend, the well meaning grandmother, that person who apparently thinks they know best. And what did they tell the guy? If you love her let her go. How stupid. Now maybe it's just me, but I think that's the worst advice ever. In my very limited experience, the leading cause of unhappiness is the lack of communication. If you love that girl, let her know! If you can't stand the thought of life without her, don't stand idly by and let her ruin your chance of happiness! Maybe she will decide best thing to do is leave, but at least you tried. If you just let her leave without any hesitation, why would she want to stay? And who are you to know what's best for them? They can make that decision, they're big girls. Anyways, I think that if you love someone, you have to work for them, fight for them, let them know you're willing to figure this out. That would be the cutest story of all. Never giving up.
So if someone ever tells me if you love them let them go, I can personally guarantee that I will work for what I love.

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