Monday, February 18, 2013

Movie endings...

Okay, this one's probably going to be a quickie because I'm tired and I want to go to bed. I've been thinking about this just for the last couple of minutes, and I really want to share with you. So let's talk about romantic comedies. Or a romance in general. The girl has always got boy problems, whether it be a stupid boyfriend or just the lack of love in life. Along comes Mister Gorgeous. They meet, they fall in love, they're perfect for each other. It appears as if there will be a happy ending. BUT WAIT! The girl's got some previous issue she hasn't settled yet. She decides that this is all too much for her, and that she's going back to her other way of life. Now here's where it gets interesting. Enter the best friend, the well meaning grandmother, that person who apparently thinks they know best. And what did they tell the guy? If you love her let her go. How stupid. Now maybe it's just me, but I think that's the worst advice ever. In my very limited experience, the leading cause of unhappiness is the lack of communication. If you love that girl, let her know! If you can't stand the thought of life without her, don't stand idly by and let her ruin your chance of happiness! Maybe she will decide best thing to do is leave, but at least you tried. If you just let her leave without any hesitation, why would she want to stay? And who are you to know what's best for them? They can make that decision, they're big girls. Anyways, I think that if you love someone, you have to work for them, fight for them, let them know you're willing to figure this out. That would be the cutest story of all. Never giving up.
So if someone ever tells me if you love them let them go, I can personally guarantee that I will work for what I love.

Sunday, February 10, 2013

Things that make me lose respect...

I'm going to start out by saying that there are exceptions to every rule, and there are situations that are extreme situations that don't fall into the categories. Also, I'm kind of feeling bitter right now, so these things might be slightly biased to the current situation. As always , these are mine unusual ramblings, and I'm justified because I warned about it in my title.

The first super respect loser is dishonesty. I'm the kind of person who believes people when they tell me things, and when I find out the they lied to me, I'm heartbroken. The worst part is that I'm also a kind of a forgiving person. They keep stabbing me, over and over again. Eventually, though, it comes to a point where enough is enough and I just lose all respect for them. I can't trust them, and I can hardly even look at them.

The second super irritating respect loser is the pressurer. That person who no matter how many times you say no, just won't give up. If I don't want to tell you my feelings, you're not going to weasel them out of me. Fight me. If I have a secret and I don't want to tell you the first time, I'm not going to. Get over it.

Conversely, I also lose respect for pushovers. People who standards shift and sway with who they are with, what they're doing, or what's in style. Have your own opinions, goshdangit! Stand up for what you believe in! Don't let people push you around, and tell you what you can and can't do, and try to control your life. If you have a secret and don't want to tell, tell them to fight you.

The final group of people have no respect for are the "woe is me" type. The people who think that life is so hard, and that everyone should pity them. Yes life is hard, but you shouldn't go crying about it all day. This one I might be kind of a hypocrite on, but everybody's got something to improve on. It's okay to be upset sometimes, and it's okay not to be happy with where you are in life. But just sitting around sulking isn't going to solve anyone's problems. Crying just to get pity is the weakest trick I know.

So now I'm wondering if you can guess what I'm upset about today. I always call people I'm upset at tools, but I think really there just using me. I am the tool. But one day, this tool is going to smash some fingers. That's all I'm saying.